- She told me that if I wasn't serious about making change in my life, she'd refer me to someone else. I was kinda taken aback, and that was obviously the goal, because I was like "if you think I am just here to placate someone else (the wife perhaps), or that I am thinking this will be some easy road, you are crazier than me".
- She also told me that I was obviously very self aware and had a good grasp on what I needed to overcome, something she said can take years of therapy to get to the point of. She may have been patronizing me under the guise of trust-building, but I don't care, it was validation and I need a little to keep moving forward at this point.
So, a day of baby steps, of doing lots of small things that reflect or enact a change in behavior.